Maladjusted?

I believe…

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I stumbled upon this blog post at In the Boat, and loved it so much I wanted to share it on my blog as well.  Here is the link to the original post so that you don’t think I am plagiarising!

Birth Certificate shows that we were born
A Death Certificate shows that we died
Pictures show that we lived!
Have a seat . . . Relax . . . And read this slowly.

I Believe…
That just because two people argue,
it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other.
And just because they don’t argue,
it doesn’t mean they do love each other.

I Believe…
That we don’t have to change friends if
we understand that friends change.

I Believe…
That no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt
you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I Believe…
That true friendship continues to grow, even over
the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I Believe…
That you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.

I Believe…
That it’s taking me a long time
to become the person I want to be.

I Believe…
That you should always leave loved ones with
loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I Believe…
That you can keep going long after you think you can’t.

I Believe…
That we are responsible for what
we do,  no matter how we feel.

I Believe…
That either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I Believe…
That heroes are the people who do what has to be done
when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I Believe…
That money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I Believe…
That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I Believe…
That sometimes the people you expect to kick you
when you’re down, will be the ones to help you get back up.

I Believe…
That sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry,
but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I Believe…
That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had
and what you ‘ve learned from them and less to do
with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I Believe…
That it isn’t always enough, to be forgiven by others.
sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I Believe…
That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your
grief.

I Believe…
That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are,
but, we are responsible for who we become.

I Bel ieve…
That you shouldn’t be so eager to find
out a secret. It could change your life Forever.

I Believe…
Two people can look at the exact same
thing and see something totally different.

I Believe…
That your life can be changed in a matter of
hours by people who don’t even know you.

I Believe…
That even when you think you have no more to give, when
a friend cries out to you – you will find the strength to help.

I Believe…
That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I Believe…
That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

I Believe…
That you should send this to all of the people that you believe in, I just
did.

‘The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything;
they just make the most of everything.

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Written by Lores

February 8, 2009 at 12:09 am

3 Responses

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  1. Lores, this is awesome. If we could internalize a quarter of these beliefs, life would be amazing.

    One that has a lot of meaning to me is….

    I Believe…
    That no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt
    you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

    I had a hurtful situation with a colleague who has become a real friend over the past year that we worked together. I said early in our friendship that I observed that whenever 2 people work on anything together for prolonged periods such as work, friendship, relatsionship, etc…. that pissing each other off at some point is an eventuality.

    A few months ago, I said something major-league hurtful. It was completely unintentional but it was huge. I apologized. I then asked her if she remembered me talking about my theory of the eventuality of pissing each other off. She said yes. So I told her that I thought that day had arrived for us.

    It took the sting off the situation completely and put it into perspective. It does not change the fact that I was wrong and she was hurt. But yet, it did put it into context of simply how life works. I can think of no exceptions where I have not hurt or been hurt at some point by someone I was in relationship with. It just happens.

    Great post.

    Ciao.

    Chaz

    Chaz

    February 8, 2009 at 10:38 am

  2. Hi Chaz,

    Yes its great isn’t it! I found this post so inspiring I really wanted to share it, and I’m glad that you liked it as well.

    Lores

    Lores

    February 8, 2009 at 5:33 pm

  3. Lores… I posted this on my facebook page and got a ton of discussion happening. THanks.

    Chaz

    February 13, 2009 at 4:39 pm


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